If you’ve ever been to London and used the underground railway, you may have read the bold eye-catching phrase “Mind the Gap” at your feet, or jumped in alarm when the audible warning alerted you and other railway passengers to take caution while crossing the gap between the train door and the station platform.
The phrase “Mind the Gap” was coined in 1968 after it became impractical for station attendants to warn passengers.
Accidents at the London Underground had become commonplace, and there was an urgent need to help passengers know when they were about to step into a danger zone.
There may have been a more conventionally polite British way for the London underground to suggest the next safe step, but with digital recording being what it was in ‘68, the recording equipment and data storage were expensive. So a brief instructive phrase was chosen (which also happened to be easier to paint on the platform step).
the Unknown, or FOTU (Carleton, 2016), is absolutely the WORST (or fundamental,
at least) fears of humankind.
Worse even than fear of pain or fear of death. FOTU is responsible
for most of our underlying social or health anxiety, panic, depression, anger,
PTSD, personality disorders, and what has become our general cultural
You’re afraid it’s going to be worse than where you are now. Hands
down, not worth one damn step forward.
No wonder your fear of the dark spaces under a childhood bed,
around the curve of a long obscured staircase, or upon meeting your
sweetheart’s parents. So much can go bad in a very short time.
Knowing the Gap (between our current Reality and the Potential)
helps you calibrate your expectations and prepare to at least assume that…
…you don’t know what you’re getting into, and that it could be
different than you imagine.
Know where the bounds of safety are, and
To have enough capacity to get across the gap.
I love the best-selling book
William Bridges (1980). He suggested that change is something that happens to
people, even if they don’t agree with it. Transition, on the other hand, is
internal: it’s what happens in people’s minds as they go through change. Change
can happen very quickly, while transition usually occurs more slowly. by
Or, in other words, change is easy. Transition is what’s hard.
So stepping from one side of a train platform that seems safe and
solid, onto an imminently-moving train over a big gap, feels perilous.
You hesitate, take a deep breath, and put your foot out into the
And of course the same applies to all parts of your life. You’d
get stuck in your house robe and socks, sucking down another cup of coffee (or
matcha), if you only imagined that getting out the door to work would be
perilous (which it is, often.)
Instead, you use your visualization skills and imagine a different
future for the day.
You know how this goes.
Each and every day of your life you:
Imagine what’s possible for yourself, sometimes better than the
day you had yesterday (an inconceivable vision) and
Know that it will be different than any expectations you’re going
to create anyway (imagining possibility).
So whatever occurs as you make your way down the tracks, you have
to imagine you can handle it, or you wouldn’t go at all.
You’re prepared for the unexpected. To be surprised.
Are you with me?
So if that’s true, then what if you could imagine an even
What if you Minded the Gap from your Current Reality to a
Potential that’s so different than what you expect, or can conceive of today,
that it blows your minds and socks off (and you get out of your metaphorical
What if, in fact, you’re really re-creating the same scenario, day
after day, in your life by having very low or limited expectations of what’s
What would life look like if, instead of imagining the worst, you
imagined the (previously) inconceivable instead?
That on the other side would be YOUR success, meaning, focus, ease, impact, abundance….
If you knew….
…that Thoughts Become Things and that a Possibility Mindset™ could simultaneously Mind the Gap and help you get
across it to your purpose-driven Big Vision…
Would you be willing to take a step?
The science and practice of living into your FOTU and getting across the gap are all clear, reasonable and can take you there.
You’re gonna have to have a leap of faith and trust me on this.
After 35+ years of taking people there with a practical and science-based model, it’s possible.
All you have to do is answer a few questions.
· What’s your dream? What’s across the chasm in your Reality to Potential Gap?
· What’s stopping you? What are the elements of your FOTU that keep you in your metaphorical house robe?
· What kind of assurance do you need to take the first bold step?
No need to jump before you’re ready, but the platforms haven’t turned out to be so solid, either.
Let’s keep talking.
William Bridges (1980). Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes.