Story of My Book

This book will dispel any notion that your life doesn’t matter. You’ll learn that your own nuanced one-of-a-kind Purpose is right there in front of you, waiting to be discovered, so you can listen to its whispers and let it guide you like a GPS to a more fulfilling and impactful life.  Your nuanced Purpose shows up uniquely at different stages of life (related to Stage of Consciousness), which is part of why we can’t see our Purpose so clearly.

Most people think or believe that:
Purpose is a job or career, or a passion, and that you usually figure it out as an adult, if at all. Childhood wounding is bad, and prevents you from living a good life. We are “defined” at an early age, which becomes the identity our lives get stuck in.
BUT, based on my 30-plus years of research and in activating thousands of clients to “find themselves,” and then to live powerful, aligned lives guided by their deep Soul Purpose, I’ve come to witness that:

• Purpose is the seed that guides us throughout our life.
• Passions and curiosities are indicators of Purpose, and jobs and careers are expressions of Purpose, but they are not inherently our Purpose.

In this book, I demonstrate how Purpose shows up in different parts of our lives through our unique expression.

Our childhood wounding is an indicator of Purpose, which we can use to uncover our Purpose as we explore and heal that wound. In this book, I’ll show why we’re required to do this “growing up”, and accomplish the developmental tasks at different stages of life, in order to fully express our Purpose.

Our Soul Purpose is evident at very early stages in life, as our soul pulls us in the direction of our longings. In this book, I’ll demonstrate how we sabotage that pull and limit our own evolution and purposeful expression.

I was compelled to write this book after uncovering these patterns that debunked the myths about Purpose.

Most people don’t think to “find themselves” until serious turmoil or trauma forces them to explore who they are, or later in life, as they experience a deep longing for more meaning. I wondered if it didn’t have to be that hard or come so late in life. So I put on my scientist hat and found a childhood pattern of extremely nuanced soul expression that was repeated over and over, like a “thread” throughout our lives.

This Golden Thread is evident very early, and somehow we miss it.

My hope is that, in reading this book, you’ll discover where to look for the Golden Thread in your life stories. In this book, I hope to instill in you the same passion and excitement that I have for living my Purpose. And then ultimately, I want you to use this book as a tool to help you watch for and create a different trajectory for a life with more meaning, intention, and success.