Perhaps
you’ve been watching holiday films like I have.
My adult daughter and I rewatched the Jim Carrey version of The
Grinch (2000), Ron Howard’s remake of the Dr. Seuss book
originally written in 1957. The Grinch, now
almost a cult class because of Carrey, was written by Theodor Seuss Geisel (aka
Seuss or “Dr. Seuss”) about 20 years after his first book was published, which
was only published after it was rejected 27 times.
Geisel had a circuitous path before becoming the notorious author
of 60 children’s books. Though, Seuss adamantly disliked his work being
categorized as ‘children’s books.”
“I don’t write for children, I write for people. Once a writer starts talking down to kids, he’s lost. Kids can pick up on that kind of thing.” (Seuss’ Biography, 2017)
Perhaps that’s why I Iove his books so much, and went through
several copies of Cat in the Hat and Green
Eggs and Ham when my children were small. Are
You My Mother? was a favorite during my own childhood,
probably because I had the same curiosity about belonging. My favorite all-time
Seuss book though is Oh, the Places You’ll Go,
published in 1990, just one year before Seuss’ death.
I once read that entire delightful book to a group of teens that I
mentored in social action research in 2000. Some young person must’ve needed
the book more than me, because it was the last time I saw it.
While Seuss did start his career doing what he loved, he was
caught drinking (during Prohibition) and fired from his job as editor-in-chief
at Dartmouth’s humor magazine. Despite the loss of his job, he kept writing for
the magazine anyway under the pseudonym ‘Seuss’. Because it mattered to him.
Because it’s what he came to do.
None of those things really sound like his life was moving in the
right direction, or at least expediently. Until you see the Golden Thread behind
it all. Each and every opportunity in life, successful or not, was a chance for
him to draw. He evidently had a good sense of humor to be able to make lemonade
out of oil company advertising and propaganda posters. That might explain some
of the whimsical directional signs (google
‘Dr. Seuss signs’ if you don’t know what I’m talking about) and the
Escher-like architecture in his surreal neighborhood drawings.
The nutshell here is that everything
he experienced was On Purpose. There were no wrong turns. It’s
just that he didn’t quit. He persisted, in the face of seemingly poor odds that
he would end up doing what he was meant to do.
That’s the name of the game. To keep going. To know deep down and
listen closely to what matters.
And
if you’ve shut off your spigot for so long that you can’t hear it, there are
ways to turn it back on.
Full throttle. (Got it, mixed metaphors. I’m no Seuss).
When I was a small child and heard the cosmic whispers that I was
here to do important things, I thought all of these things:
· I was crazy, or
· I was lucky, or
· I must be special.
It’s taken me several decades to realize all those things are
true. Well, less so the crazy part, it turns out. I just know how to get quiet
and listen to the voices that are always here, if I’m willing to receive them.
But the last two, that I’m lucky and must be special are
definitely true.
You see, I’m lucky because I ACTUALLY BELIEVE that I’m lucky and
special (most days). That there’s a reason I’m here and that my real job here
is to focus on that work. Because that’s my greatest contribution to us all
that will have an impact in the world.
Like Theodor Seuss Geisel who didn’t quit after 26 times of having
his first book rejected. Because the 27th try was just the right number.
And yes. You have a Golden Thread. We all have do. It’s our GPS.
It guides us, down seemingly wrong turns and dark alleys, but always pulls us
back to the highway if we’re listening.
Here’s the book I’ve written on The Golden Thread, to be published in April 2020.
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And then there’s the story about Jim
Carrey on the set of The Grinch, whose
personality quirks sent the makeup artist to therapy. Carrey too had a
circuitous career path (including dropping out of school at 16, experiencing
homelessness, a tough death and legal battle and suffering from depression).
Like many others whose greatest gifts came after struggle, his tenacity and
commitment led him to extreme filmmaking productivity. One of his later films, The
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind probably led him to his
own evolution and more recently, to advocating for consciousness.
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